I made a mistake last week ...


Hi Reader,

Coaching: I Made a Mistake Last Week

I hope to correct it here.

When I introduced my executive coaching services last week, I fell short in explaining the value and possibilities of individual coaching — not necessarily from me, but absolutely from someone.

That was the important point I didn’t make clearly.

What I hope you’ll see now is why individual coaching is so valuable to so many — and what it could offer you. See for yourself.

The Value of Coaching is Incontrovertible

I'm going to take a few moments this week to talk directly about coaching — today for yourself — and on Wednesday, for your team.

One of the most obvious places you can see it is in sports, both college and professional. There are countless top performers in sports, as an example, who acknowledge that they’ve had coaches for their entire career.

Why do Tiger Woods and Tom Brady need a coach, you ask? They’re already pretty good and headed to the Hall of Fame.

They recognize they can always get better – and understand they can’t always see their shortcomings or how to correct them.

It's clearly worked for them throughout their professional lives.

Here is a small sample of some of the leading voices in the world of High Performance on the value of coaching.

Andy Stanley, Next Generation Leader

Andy Stanley observes, in his book, Next Generation Leader, that

“you will never maximize your potential in any area without coaching. It is impossible."

He further emphasizes that a good coach...

"helps you measure your performance against your strengths instead of against someone else’s."

Bill Gates, retired Founder of Microsoft

“Everyone needs a coach… We all need people who will give us feedback. That’s how we improve.”

Gates's statement comes from his 2013 TED talk: Everyone Needs a Coach.

Eric Schmidt, former Google CEO

Schmidt recalls advice he received from John Doerr. (John Doerr is the billionaire investor and Chairman of venture capital firm Kleiner Perkins, an early investor in giants like Amazon and Google.)

“You need a coach.”

Schmidt’s initial reaction was essentially, I’m an experienced CEO — why would I need one?

Then Doerr asked whether tennis players have coaches. Schmidt says that argument got him, and he immediately hired a coach.

It’s about Perspective

That’s the overwhelming judgment from executives, athletes and performers.

It gives them a perspective they can’t get for themselves.

It’s the same reason in professional football, for example, that you see a team of coaches in the press box high above the stadium who get a perspective on plays and players that couldn’t come from any other source.

Who Does That For You?

Who gives you that perspective?

Who notices what you’re missing, questions your assumptions and helps you think through a difficult decision?

If you believe coaching could help you become more effective and prepare for greater responsibility, ask your boss to support it. In many of the cases I’ve seen, companies pay for coaching for their leaders.

Explain what you want to improve and how that improvement would benefit the organization.

If company support isn’t available, consider whether coaching is an investment you’re willing to make in yourself.

Explore what coaching can offer you.

You can learn more through my complimentary 5-Part Coaching Series or start with a conversation.

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